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Frequently Asked Questions

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    What are you having? A baby. I don't want to know the gender prior to delivery. When is the baby due? The estimated due date is between my mom's birthday and my birthday in January 2025. What will you name the baby? I'll share the name after baby is born.  My nickname for now is "Joy". Do you want a boy or girl? I just want a healthy baby. Who is the father? Read the previous blog posts. Will you stop traveling? No  What did you do about the fibroids? I chose to pursue a natural health plan with Muhimu Oils Wellness Center . The largest fibroid was 10 cm and shrank to 8.5 cm following the plan prior to FET.  Since becoming pregnant, the hormones that help my baby grow are also helping the fibroids grow and putting me at risk for pre-term labor.  I believe and pray that my baby will keep growing and the fibroids will shrink. Where are you registered? registry details Does Isis know you're pregnant? Dogs know us better than we know ourselves. I smell diff...

My 1st trimester

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I am grateful that my pregnancy has been smooth so far. My 1st trimester symptoms were so mild that I might not have known that I was pregnant if I didn't already know. I also haven't experienced any symptoms associated with the fibroids. I'm exhausted and constantly need to pee. I'm at the beginning of my second trimester, and supposedly, I'm going to get a burst of energy and stop peeing so much. I've officially moved into my new home in Dallas, so I'm looking forward to getting settled and nesting.  I shared my pregnancy news with people closest to me, and I know soon enough most people will know because of my growing belly. I'm grateful for my village. I have received love, support, and a bit of curiosity. For many of the people I know, especially family, I am the only person in their lives who has intentionally pursued pregnancy via IVF, and I chose to do it without a partner, and I'm in my 40s. I break barriers. Hopefully, sharing my journey wi...

Doing hard things

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For the first 10 weeks of my pregnancy, beginning 2 weeks before the transfer, I had to take hormones to make sure my body would support the early growth of my baby. The nurse drew this diagram of my butt so I would know where the progesterone in oil (PIO) injections should go. I drew those same lines on my butt every morning to be sure I did it correctly. At the same time that I was doing these daily injections and other medications, I was in the process of moving from Houston to Dallas. It was a lot! I saw my fertility doctor for the last time during my 9th week. She did another ultrasound, and I could actually identify the baby this time. I heard the heartbeat, and I cried. They gave me a copy of my medical records to give to my OB, and I was released to regular prenatal care. It felt like a graduation ceremony. I completed my final shot a few days later, which was the day before I moved. I had a contingency plan with my doctor just in case my move happened earlier,  but I'm gra...

Blessed beyond belief

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Luke 1:28 NKJV‬ [28]... the angel said to her, “Rejoice, highly favored one,  the Lord is with you; blessed are you among women!”   https://bible.com/bible/114/luk.1.28.NKJV ‭Luke 1:34 KJV‬ [34] ...How shall this be, seeing I know not a man?    https://bible.com/bible/1/luk.1.34.KJV  ‭‭Luke 1:36-37 NKJV‬ [36] Now indeed, Elizabeth... has also conceived... in her old age ... [37] For with God nothing will be impossible.”    https://bible.com/bible/114/luk.1.36-37.NKJV ‭Luke 1:65-66 NIV‬ [65] All the neighbors were filled with awe, and... people were talking about all these things. [66] Everyone who heard this wondered about it, asking, “What then is this child going to be?” For the Lord’s hand was with him.     https://bible.com/bible/111/luk.1.65-66.NIV My first positive home pregnancy test